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KUALA LUMPUR: As Malaysia’s first local navy chief, K Thanabalasingam felt deeply honoured by the attention.
The young bachelor was equally surprised when Tunku Abdul Rahman personally extended dinner invitations to him.
At first, Thanabalasingam, who became chief of naval staff at 31 in 1967, assumed these soirées were mere courtesy.
Soon he realised the prime minister had a subtle, yet sharp agenda.
Welcoming foreign dignitaries into his home, Tunku sought to showcase Malaysia’s rising local talent.
And what better exhibit than a poised, well‑mannered admiral.
Over time, Tunku and Thanabalasingam struck a genuine friendship.
“Gradually, when he got to know me better, I could tell he liked my company,” Thana writes in The Admiral’s Reflections.
More than diplomacy, these dinners became a chance for candid conversation.
On one occasion, Tunku teased him in front of visiting envoys: “You’re just waiting for a windfall.”
When Thana asked what windfall, the Tunku quipped with a hearty laugh, “A big fat dowry, of course.”
The foreign dignitaries got the joke and laughed along.
That playful quip shone a light on Thanabalasingam’s easy-going charm, and whose unmarried status became as legendary as his command.
In an interview with FMT about his memoir, Thanabalasingam, (Thana), 89, admitted he put career over marriage.
Still, he had his share of romance. “I once dated three daughters of a senior Malay official, and their parents trusted me completely in those more open days.”
A handsome K Thanabalasingam as a cadet officer (left), in a yacht (centre) and as chief of naval staff in 1967. (K Thanabalasingam pics)
Bachelor on the frontline
Thana’s status as a bachelor didn’t just spark dinner table jests — it shaped how friends and foes viewed Malaysia’s naval leadership.
In July 1975, at the Navy Day parade at KD Malaya in Singapore, Tunku’s successor Abdul Razak Hussein paid Thana a glowing tribute.
He singled out Thana alongside fellow bachelor Tengku Razaleigh Hamzah of Petronas for their contributions to the country.
“Our nation is indeed fortunate to have these two special bachelors at this time,” Razak proclaimed.
Yet it was in moments of grave tension that Thana’s calm resolve truly shone.
In 1968, after President Marcos ordered an air‑sea build‑up near Sabah, two Philippine aircraft buzzed a Royal Malaysian Navy (RMN) patrol craft off Sandakan.
Summoned to an emergency cabinet meeting, the then-acting chief of armed forces staff knew that lives and sovereignty hung in the balance.
His plan was swift: redeploy all available ships, aircraft and troops from Sarawak to Sabah for immediate reinforcement.
Tunku, impressed by the on‑the‑spot recommendation, ordered its execution.
He then surprised Thana by instructing him to hold a press conference to warn the Philippines that any further airspace violations would be met with force.
To avoid probing press questions, Thana opted for a firm press statement instead.
He chuckled when Manila fired back with their own press release, complete with detailed RMN strength estimates, “information any open‑source keen observer could glean from Jane’s Fighting Ships.”
Philippine newspapers even sneered at his youth and bachelorhood as signs of inexperience.
But there was no armed clash, and by year’s end the frictions eased.
Thana said due to the frosty relations between Malaysia and the Philippines, he never visited the country during his nine-year tenure as navy chief.
K Thanabalasingam with Phee Kok Yam’s daughter, Ming Yeen, then aged four (left). Phee with Ming Yeen after her graduation ceremony at Universiti Sains Penang (right).
A lifelong bond
Behind every great bachelor is an equally steadfast companion.
For more than five decades, that friend has been Phee Kok Yam, Thana’s butler, house manager and de facto family.
Alor Setar-born Phee joined the RMN as a recruit in 1966 and served aboard KD Hang Tuah under commander Thana.
In early 1968, Thana handpicked him to manage matters at his official residence, a role Phee has filled ever since.
Today, Phee, 81, looks after all his personal affairs — house, garden, dogs, geese, fish and bills.
“I’d say he’s not one in a million, but I prefer to call him my butler or major-domo,” said Thana.
When Phee’s wife and daughter embraced Thana’s bachelor heart, they became more family to him than his own relatives.
In The Admiral’s Reflections, seven pages are devoted to their warmth, a testament to bonds forged beyond blood.
That bond was tested on a fateful September night in 2015, when three robbers, armed with parangs, invaded Thana’s Ampang home.
Phee, ever loyal, shielded his employer and suffered a head wound requiring a dozen stitches.
Thana fought back with his walking stick, hammering one attacker until police arrived.
K Thanabalasingam on the KD Sri Pahang. (K Thanabalasingam pic)
Flag prank
Even a respected admiral couldn’t resist youthful pranks.
While commanding KD Sri Pahang, Thana once substituted “flag India” (the naval signal for intending to berth) with a lady’s undergarment — a bra.
His shipmates roared, and whenever that cheeky silhouette fluttered at the mast, everyone knew exactly which ship it was.
The joke stayed within the RMN until the senior officer flotilla ordered him to strike the “flag” and report for an explanation.
After a stern dressing down, he saluted and departed only to be asked, “Where the hell did you get it?”
Thana’s salute froze mid-air. “It’s a long story, sir,” he quipped, earning a grudging grin and an invitation for drinks at the wardroom.
He never hoisted that brassiere again, but the legend endures.
To purchase the 492-page, The Admiral’s Reflections, contact 019 261 4948.
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